FOR THE PARENT WHO CARES
One specific thing to do tonight.
Not advice. Not a programme. A guide, and genuine connection.
Browse guides Start tonight. Free.I feel like I'm always half-present
I just want them to remember that I was there
I want to put the phone down but I don't know what to do instead
"I know the parent I want to be. I just don't always manage to show up as it."
Turns out that's nearly half of parents, not just you.
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Seven moments already in your day. The gap between being there and being seen.
You are with your child every day. But being with someone and truly seeing them are different things. You have been there, available, and still sometimes you wonder if it landed.
Seven specific moments, each one a way to turn your full attention toward your child. Get on the floor. Let them finish the sentence. Name one true thing you noticed, not a compliment, an observation. None of it costs anything or takes longer than five minutes.
Being seen is not the same as being praised. Say what you observed, not what you approved of. That difference is the whole guide.
- Seven specific moments of full attention, none requiring more than five minutes
- Exact opening lines for each moment, so you're not guessing what to say
- The difference between "good job" and naming what you actually noticed, and why it changes what a child does next
- Notes space on every page, for the things they said or did that are worth keeping
What is inside:
- Seven presence moments, each with a way to start
- Space for your own notes on each page
- Works for children from age three upwards
- 10 pages, A4, print-ready
Delivery: instant download after purchase.
She's growing up so fast and I feel like I'm missing it
We don't have a lot of time but I want what we do have to count
I want them to want to talk to me when they're older
Before you buy
Frequently Asked Questions
Not advice, not a course. A guide is a printable PDF built around one specific way to connect: a bedtime ritual, a story your child has never heard, a weekly question. It tells you what to do, gives you the words to start with, and gets out of the way.
How is this different from a free list of questions I could find online? A free list gives you a question. A guide gives you the whole moment: how to open it, what tends to happen after you ask, and what it's actually giving your child. You're not just filling silence. You know why it matters and what to do with what comes back.
It's not one conversation. It's the same small opening, used enough times, until a child who was starting to go quiet starts bringing things to you before you ask. The guides are built as repeatable rituals for that reason, not one-off tip lists you use once and forget.
Most guides ask for two to five minutes. You don't need to do all of it, or do it every day. Start with one. That was always the part that mattered, not the amount of time.
Most guides work from about two or three years old and up, with notes on adjusting the language for younger children. There's no upper age. Parents use these with teenagers too.
No. These are built for the ordinary, everyday work of staying close to your child, not for anything that needs a professional in the room. If something feels bigger than a guide can hold, that's worth taking to someone qualified first.
A print-ready PDF, sent straight to your inbox after checkout. Print it or keep it on screen. Yours to keep, and to come back to as many times as you like.